Like the saying goes, change is the only constant in life. Sometimes it’s for the better, other times it’s not. But no matter what, it will come at you every day of your life. With some transitions, it might be hard to adjust. Fortunately, there are things you can do to make change more manageable.
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Prepare for future changes by getting used to the process. Try new things on a regular basis so that variety become a natural part of your life. Take chances and open yourself up to what’s outside your comfort zone. New foods, sports, friends, classes, hobbies and so on make you more able to adapt to the changes you will later encounter. Besides, novel forms of stimulation are great for your brain!
2. Prepare
Not all change is foreseeable, but you can make life a lot easier if you prepare when you can. Make decisions that are consistent with what you will be facing. If you need a new outfit in the winter, you’re not going to buy shorts (unless you’re lucky enough to live somewhere warm). Now is a good time to look at the year ahead. What changes are you making and what challenges do you face? If you take the time to examine those things, you can make a plan to better handle the changes.
3. Establish comfort
When you are faced with something new and unknown, find something familiar to hold on to. There is always a way to bring in something you treasure. Often, it’s the little things. You might have a new job, but you can put the same pictures on your desk and listen to the same radio station on your drive to work. Not only is this a chance for you to make things more comfortable, but you might find that your old experiences can add something valuable to your new ones.
4. Learn to both hold on and let go
When faced with change, we are given the question of what to keep and when to let go. Take some time to consciously think about this. What lets you progress and what is holding you back? You might also find that some things can remain, but in a different form. For instance, you might move somewhere new. You can’t go to your favorite restaurant anymore, but you can find other similar ones. Alternately, you could adapt skills you used in one setting to fit another.
5. Be flexible and resilient
In terms of psychological health, flexibility and resilience are essential. When you are flexible, you can roll with the punches and take things as they come. This makes change less difficult and upsetting. Resilience helps you get back on track when things don’t go your way, which cuts out a lot of confusion and wasted time. Practice using these qualities in your everyday life. When things don’t go as expected, don’t let it get to you and find ways to adapt.
6. Ask for help and advice
You don’t have to go through change alone. Other people can be a great resource. Seek out both people you trust and people who have gone through changes similar to yours. If you are having trouble adjusting to a pregnancy, talk to other moms and see what helped them. If you are switching schools, see if there’s another new student you can befriend. If nothing else, it can be great to have someone to vent to and use as a sounding board.
7. Find opportunities
You can look at change either as taking something away from you or as something giving you a chance to grow. As they say, when one door closes, another opens. If the change is not one you enjoy, there can be good things that come out of it, even if it’s simply personal growth. You always have a choice in how you react to the changes in your life and if you seek out the best parts, negativity won’t get to you as easily.
What has helped you during times of change? Sound off in the comments.
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